3-month 1:1 Mentorship Program

Wondering what 1:1 calls with me are like?

I get this question a lot because many of my mentees have never done calls with a mentor before. 

Imagine that you’re sitting down for a chat with the best big sister ever (or not sitting down if that’s not your thing… we might have a dance party, or make art, or stretch, or bake… yes, literally on a call together if that’s your jam). The point of every single mentoring call is that it feels nourishing and supportive to you – so I’m not going to ask you to change for me, instead I’m going to get to know you and together we’ll build sessions together that really work for YOUR brand of magic. 

You might bring specific questions or a specific situation in your life that you want big sister support about… or you might just show up ready to hang (with no idea what to talk about!) and we figure it out together. 

Sessions together will always be a mix of check-ing in about your life that week, and the Badass Girls pre-planned curriculum (customized to you) where you get big sister support to learn key life tools oriented around your own goals for growth. For example, you might want support around confidence, big feelings, body image, school stress, or something else (whatever it is… I got you!). 

What’s included in Private Mentoring with me:

• 6 1:1 50 minute sessions with Lily (two a month, scheduled whenever works for you in my calendar)

• 1:1 text and audio support with Lily in between calls (mentee can message Lily whenever, Lily responds weekly during ‘mentor office hours’)

• Assigned supportive resources (as applicable): journaling prompts, books, podcast episodes, etc.

• Parent email access to Lily available as needed throughout the program to support mentee in getting the most out of the program (all mentee calls are confidential)

Who is 1:1 Mentoring for?

Mentees who are a great fit for 1:1 support often find:

• You want a big sister in your back pocket that’s not family or a friend your age or a therapist/school counselor… someone who gets it and there’s no ‘weird’ questions to ask

• You love the idea of a few video calls a month and texting/audio support :) you’re like… bring on the ONLINE support puhlease (calls from the comfort of your own bedroom?? Yes, thank you!)

• You want to show up for yourself and create a positive change in your life

• You feel comfortable bringing your own goals, intentions and questions to Lily so that you can co-create the sessions together (!!)

• You want to keep exploring these topics outside of your sessions with Lily and you’re excited to dive into whatever practices you and Lily together decide would be a great fit for you

• Your parent/guardian(s) feels sooooo great about you having a mentor to facilitate open real conversations (including talking about: periods, body image, anxiety, gender, sexuality, sexual orientation, pleasure, and sex). your home/family is pro the sex positive family approach, and agrees with the research that shows that the more informed kids are about their bodies, the less shame they experience, and the more discerning choices they make for themselves.

• The adults in your life are able to pay for the program with ease

• If you (the participant) are struggling (and aren’t we all sometimes, hello to being human), you’ve got a wonderful support system outside of this mentorship program (for example: a therapist or counselor) and this mentorship is one wonderful part of your support system (yay!)

Investment

Pay-in-full: $450

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3-month payment plan: $150 x 3 months

Extended payment plans and sliding scale may be available. Email me at lilzkafka@gmail.com to learn more.

FAQ:

• What ages do you mentor? How old do you have to be (or young)?

In general, I mentor people ages 10-17. If you’re outside that age group and want to connect about a unique way of working together — I may be open! Email me :)

• Do you offer payment plans?

Yes. See the investment details on this page. 

• I’m not sure my preteen/teen will go for 1:1 mentoring, but I really want them to be mentored by you!! Suggestions?

Oh, sweet parent/guardian, this is SO common! Most preteens and teens don't really know how to conceive of a ‘professional big sister’ — since it’s so different from other forms of mental health support they may be aware of. Layer that on with — sometimes a suggestion from a well-intentioned adult doesn’t always go smoothly! My nudge: hop on an exploratory call with me and we can brainstorm ways to get your kid on an exploratory call all together. I say this because once your kid is actually on a call and can chat with me face-to-face, there’s much more space and ease in assessing true alignment and the potential for connection.

How many calls are there every month?

There are 2 calls every month, as well as access to text and audio support in between calls via a private messenger app. 

• What’s your refund policy?

Due to the limited space and delivery nature of the program, there are no refunds.